5 Responses to “What’s the deal with my friend (who isn’t very original)…?”

1. Krider says:

   March 9, 2010 at 3:58 pm

   tell her what u think without being to hard it sounds to me that she just doesnt know how to fit in
2. ~Diz Iz Why Im Hot~ says:

   March 9, 2010 at 4:22 pm

   Ask her why she does the things she does…

   If you like the answer…not if it sounds good, but if you like it
   then continue on with the friendship and play off her “flaws”

   If you don’t like the answer…maybe time for a new friend to spend more time with.
3. Felicia says:

   March 9, 2010 at 4:53 pm

   Well, this is a tough situation, I would say talk to her but she would probably get defensive really quick and try to accuse you of doing what she’s doing. I’m sure that’s really annoying though. Does she have any other close friends besides your friends? You may be one of her only real friends, and she may be acting like that to fit in.

   With the saying the same words thing, sometimes when you hang out with someone long enough, you start acting like them. There was a time I was hanging out with a girl from another country at a summer camp and we actually picked up each other’s accents! But it doesn’t sound like that.

   Next time she says something about a guy and you didn’t ask for her opinion, just nicely tell her, “I really like this guy, and I’d appreciate it if you would just be happy for me.”

   I’m not really sure about what to do with the friends…maybe she’s just shy? But she shouldn’t automatically assume that they’re her friends too. She really just sounds like she’s clinging to you.
4. Chinmayar says:

   March 9, 2010 at 5:40 pm

   Action without a vision is a pastime. But vision without an action is only a day dream.
5. James F says:

   March 9, 2010 at 6:18 pm

   I hate when people do that. Gah, you have no idea.

   Anyway, once I told a friend of mine that I got my hair cut rally short (a flat top). Sure enough, he rushed right out and did the same thing. Little did he know I was lying, and I tricked him. Since we both had fairly long hair, it took him months to grow it back out.

   You could easily send him a Photoshopped photo of you with a different color hair, a hair cut, or something silly like that. If she does it, she might just learn her lesson.